Adoption 2005: Nothing is Impossible!
Friday, May 6, 2005

Workshop Period 1 10:30-12:00 Noon

1. Family to Family: Tools for Rebuilding Foster Care
The designer of “Family to Family,” one of the most important initiatives in foster care, speaks about goals, strategies, outcomes, and lessons learned. John Mattingly, New York City Administration for Children’s Services

2. The Power of Sibling Connection
The challenges faced by siblings who are separated in foster care and adoption and the need to honor their relationships. Illustrated by personal stories, literature, and law. Lynn Price, Camp to Belong

3. Concurrent Planning: Implementation in NYS
An assessment of concurrent planning in NYS. How parents, caseworkers, and foster parents are affected, and recommendations for best practice. Sarah Gerstenzang, Children’s Rights, Inc. 

4. Whom Do You Trust? Attachment in Adoptive Families
A discussion of attachment as issues of trust and mistrust. The importance of parent/professional collaborations to develop strategies for building trusting relationships. Linda Grillo and Lori Santana, Adoptive Families Together

5. Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders and How We Can Help
An OASAS specialist and an adoptive parent discuss the cognitive, emotional, and behavioral issues of FASD and successful interventions. Margo Singer and Dianne O’Connor, NYS Office of Alcoholism & Substance Abuse Services

• Workshop Period 2 1:45-3:15 p.m.

6. Listening to Parents: A “Customer Satisfaction Survey”
Hear the results of the largest study ever conducted of parents adopting from foster care. How the process works, where it is frustrating, and how to make it work better. Jeff Katz, Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute

7. Transracial Adoptees: Three Layers of Identity
Understanding the unique experiences of transracial adoptees and which layers of identity–cultural, racial, adoptive–are most important, when, and why.  Amanda Baden, Montclair State University

8. You Can’t Control the Wind, But You Can Adjust the Sail!
How to identify, monitor, and manage levels of stress. Some strategies to help you be more effective at home and at work. Barry Chaffkin, Harlem Dowling-West Side Center for Children and Family Services

9. Obtaining Services for Children with Special Needs
A health law attorney discusses how to work with and obtain services from state agencies for mentally ill, mentally retarded, or developmentally disabled children. Joan Siegel, NYC Administration for Children’s Services

10. Permanent Homes for Teens: The Saving F.A.C.E. Approach,
Part I
How to find unconditionally committed permanent parent(s) for every teen using this three-pronged recruitment approach: Friends, Acquaintances, and Community Education. Pat O’Brien, You Gotta Believe!  

Workshop Period 3 3:35-5:05 p.m.

11. Life Changes in Adoptive Families
Adoptive families, like all families, confront changes through the years–death of loved ones, moves, new schools, divorce. How can adoptive parents prepare to help their children?    Maris Blechner, Family Focus Adoption Services

12. The Truth about Teamwork
Foster parents and agency program managers discuss barriers and solutions to developing honest and effective foster parent/caseworker relationships. Susan Collins, NYS Citizens’ Coalition for Children, Moderator

13. The 3-5-7 Model: Preparing Children for Permanency
How to help foster children clarify who they are, what happened to them, where they are going, and how they will belong in their permanent family. Darla Henry, Family Design Resources, Inc.  

14. Kaleidoscope Eyes: Viewing Behavior through a Different Lens
Shifting the focus from children’s behavior to the feelings and causes of the behavior to establish healthy relationships and better communication. Linda Grillo and Lori Santana, Adoptive Families Together

15. Permanent Homes for Teens: The Saving F.A.C.E. Approach
Part II
Continuation of Workshop #10. See description above. Pat O’Brien, You Gotta Believe!

 


Adoption 2005: Nothing is Impossible!
Saturday, May 7, 2005

Workshop Period 4 8:30-9:50 a.m.

16. Where Did I Come From? Where Am I Going?
A developmental map for the child’s adoption or foster care journey to identity and wholeness. Dee Paddock, Families With A Difference

17. Seeking Permanent Outcomes for Foster Children
The views of adoptive parents, birth parents and young adults formerly in foster care on what is and is not working to ensure that all foster children are connected with caring families. Madelyn Freundlich, Children’s Rights, Inc.

18. Resilient Children: Building on Their Strengths
How abused/neglected children develop coping behaviors to survive trauma. How to help them build on inner strengths and work towards reconciliation of losses. Darla Henry, Family Design Resources, Inc. 

19. Feathers and Stones: Taking Care of Ourselves
As parents of or providers for challenging children, we need to pay attention to our own feelings of loss, grief, rejection. Ways to help ourselves and each other. Linda Grillo and Lori Santana, Adoptive Families Together 

20. What Every Foster Parent Needs to Know
Participation in permanency hearings, advocating for children in court, options when a child is not free for adoption, and other rights and responsibilities of foster parents. Margaret Burt

Workshop Period 5 10:05-11:25 a.m.

21. Each Child Has an Oar
Empowering traumatized children to change course and survive transitions in adoption and foster care. Dee Paddock, Families With a Difference

22. Race Matters: White Parents of Children of Color
Understanding white identity development and how to listen and speak to your child about race and racism. Deborah Haynor and Lorie Miller, Diversity Matters

23. Youth In Progress: Today’s Youth, Tomorrow’s Leaders
Foster care youth speak about how to build youth partnerships into agency practice and translate commitment to youth into action. Joanne Trinkle, Youth In Progress, Moderator 

24. The Invisible Presence of Birth Family
Adoptive families need to know from the beginning that the birth family needs to be a recognized part of adoptive family life. Confronting the fears and realities. Maris Blechner, Family Focus Adoption Services

25. Termination of Parental Rights (TPR) and Adoption
Requirements to file and grounds for TPR, timing of petitions, and the legal process from TPR to adoption, including expedited adoptions. Margaret Burt

Workshop Period 6 11:40-1:00 p.m.

26. Can We Fix This Child?
Transforming “great expectations” into “real expectations” in adoptive and foster families. Dee Paddock, Families With a Difference

27. Foster Parents Speak: Crossing Bridges & Fostering Change
An award winning new video is featured in a discussion of the challenges of foster parenting today and building shared parenting relationships. Susan Collins, NYS Citizens’ Coalition for Children

28. Post Adoption Services: What Do Parents Want?
Outcomes of a three-year state funded program. The post adoption services parents requested and used the most, rated highest, and cost the least to provide. Priscillia Gore, NY Council on Adoptable Children; Carol Hirsch, New Alternatives for Children; Suzanne d’Aversa, Parsons Child and Family Center

29. I’ll Tell Them When They’re Older Because…
This workshop will help you learn to talk about any topic with a child at any age. Bring your most difficult situations to share and discuss. Barry Chaffkin, Harlem Dowling-West Side Center for Children and Family Services

30. Conditional Surrenders and Open Adoptions
Issues concerning post adoption enforcement and problems with conditions that go wrong. Ways to avoid potential pitfalls. Margaret Burt

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